husband vs. bf

after such a long tym of discussions, talking and conciliating, it seems like they had found whut was the real problem, the root of every mess that had been tailing them all this while...

it was d confusion, between having a bf-type of bf OR husband-type of bf...well, pening kan dgr...whut d hell m i talking about, cakap leley je...huhu..owkay, mari kite menelaah bersama2..


1st : husband-type of bf
he is d best nominee as a husband..d perfect one la kire..die seorg yg bertanggungjawab in everythg die buat..slalu bertolak ansur n lemah lembut je ckp die..tak menyakit kn hati, n kadg2 kite ladies nie yg saket kn die..hormat org tua, klo parents kite saket, die leh la tolg, sbb byk je kes wat bodo, mlawat pn tanak..setia n jujur...tak tinggal smyg (main criteria, supaya dpt la menolong kite yg tak seberapa nie ke arah yg lebey lurus) huhu, plg pentg pandai melawak n tak lokek..so, as a husband, rugi la klo tak dpt...tp tak ramai laki cmtu skunk...
yuna pn ade lagu, ayat2 die ceni "sempurnanya sifatmu..tulus nya hatimu jujurnya niatmu, tingginya kesabaranmu...."



2nd : bf-type of bf
ini ialah utk foya2..die ini kurg sket rasa tanggungjawab die, jnis ignorance sket, huhu...lebey kpada pk diri sndiri je..he never serious bt the relationship...kedekut n kdg2 suke kikis duet pomp...panas baran, menakutkan gittuew...mlawak tu mlawak, tp tak kesah ape die ckp, pkai lepas je...huhu...yg paling pentg, appearance die, sgt sexay and adorable, tgk pn da leley....any gurl tgk, sure pandang again, kunun nye ade la hensemnye, ade la manisnye, ade la macho nye...tp itu la, sbg bf, best la...tp nk jd kan husband, takut...silap2 ladies kene keje jaga family, tak pn ladies jd mgsa kekejaman rumah tgga.....kta org, cinta nafsu...


skunk nie, ape plak problem btween dis two kan??! klo da dpt yg perfect, spatutnye da bersyukur sgt2...bkn snang nk dpt...1 dlm 100 000..haha, over lak...so, simpan je la elok2...tak yah pk2 bnda yg menyusah kn....

tp....ade plak berfikiran sebaliknye...biase la, manusia...ber akal...tuhan bg akal utk berfikir...klo tak tade la penyokong dan pembakang...ngeee...

cth nye la kan, kes favourite most of d kapel in M'sia, ble kapel, tggal kawan...sbb kta nye bf tak bg kawan la...bf tak benarkan pegi mane2 ngan mber la...kwn2 yg da lama berkawan ngan die, sure la bgang tahap dewa, ye la, diorg knal die dlu tp ble laki tu dpt, tak smpi sbulan dua, da control n d gurl bkan maen hadap lg ikut je kata2 bf kesayangan die...btol jgak, she shud not b like dat...di mane die ltak knangan2 die ngan mber, d bond yg diorg da bind slame nie, putus cm tu je for a guy yg tak tentu die akan kawen...

on the other hand, utk gurl tu, mgkn die tak pnah rsa syg mcm tu ke..she gives all her heart into that relationship, n faith upon the bf..bole jd gak kan, gurls are a bit vulnerable..so ayat sket, die shuke la...ngeh2...da shuke, ape lg, follow je ckp...kta org kentut ngah wangi...so utk gurl2 yg lurus cmni pn, kite taleh nk slah kn die...jiwa die laen dr jiwa kita...

so, it's a subjektif thg...

berbalik kpd issue td..nape ade kekusutan nk pilih bf type mane sdang kn da nmpk pros n cons nye...well, again, different pple ade different attitude n way of thinkg...d way u think might not b d same as me or even johny depp..tba2 la plak selit nma die kan..haha...

well..stengah org prefer adventure..prefer to hv satisfaction dlm life..tak mau folow je..tak mau stay secured, dlm kepompong lutsinar yg die wat sndiri...comfort zone la senang cite...sumtimes, pple tend to say, pnat cari pnat cari, ble la nk jmpa...kan..?!

u will always try to find d perfect one n dat is why u keep on searching n searching.....try n error......and actually, if u look back, dat's whut dat makes ur search worthwhile, sbb slagi tak jmpa u keep on mencari...u r excited to find d perfect fit...u'll meet so many mr wrong in that process...n u'll gain so many experiences...

experience to be betrayed, to betray, to feel alone even u hv sumone, to be king controlled, to be lied n lied repeatedly, to be a faithful partner, to be d cashier, to be d baby, to be beaten n so many more...n why must u go thru all these???? it's whut experience is for, to be ur guidance..experience is d best teacher, best among d best..bak kata org tua, da terantuk bru tengadah...cth yg td, da break, bru tau kwn2 tu pn pntg, bkn bf je, so die akan blaja dat next tym die kene lebey flexible....itu cth la...

n once u have found 'd one' , it is actually at d end of ur search i.e. kawen...tp nk kawen, kene pk logik la, tade pape pn dlm poket..duet tade, keje tade...so, pjg lg prjalanan, tp u da jmpa d perfect one..there is no more excitement 2 search, to try n error, to find HIM cause he is oredy right in front of ur eyes...isnt it better if u stat to find d perfect one ble u da btol2 nk setel down?? itu skadar ptanyaan, sbb kite ni manusia...byk persoalan, n byk jgak jwpn...so, kte leh je bncg2 bnda nie...sbb mmg ramai la mber asyk tnya, ble diorg nk kapel, tak jmpa2 la blablablabla.....

so, da terjwb la kan, nape tak amik je husband-type bf...sbb manusia nie macam2 dlm pale die...die tau ape die nk dpan mate, tp die tanak amik lg, sbb die tau klo die amik, dats it....end of d search....tu utk yg adventerous la...

utk yg suke tggal dlm comfort zone, they prefer da jmpa tu, grap trus.....jgn lepas....takut t melepas, rugi...btol kan?? huhu...phm2....

warne warni kan hidup nie...bnda yg simple pn leh jd so complex n complicated....tp tgk kt bright side, itu yg wat hdup ni pnoh ngan varieties :)

ni ade kata2 yg sgt menyentuh hati...when i first laid my eyes kat ayat nie, i sgt2 tah, cm terharu, cm saket, cm bsalah, cm syg..mcm2 la..huhu..

"if u luv n mis dat person, than luv can come again when u meet again. just like playing hide n seek. no matter where it hides or even if u cant see it, it must be waiting at some place 4 u amid the countless chaos, jz like d sincere prayers of luv, d ppl in luv wil surely meet again"

jz have faith...nape adam dan hawa, ble terpisah masa diturunkan ke bumi pd hari Jumaat tu, dpt jmpa again??? tp org Islam jgn smpi sggup mati bersama2....murtad otomatik..ngee..org yg berpisah, sama ade scara pksaan atau rela hati, amik teladan dr diorg nie....redha, tawakkal, doa, usaha.....klo ade jodoh, pisah la jauh mane, planet pluto pn, takan ke mane...jmpa gak...tah2 jmpa tym nk buang air ke...sape tau...kn....possibilities are oways there :DD

jom pk....

salam XDD